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BFF's 17th
5 years. What's 5 years to some people? Some may think that 5 years can bypass like a gush of wind, and it's no big deal... Indeed, I wouldn't disagree, but the past 5 years have taught me so many things I'll never want to forget and will always be kept close to my heart.
Good or bad memories, they are still memories I wish to look back and laugh upon. Life hasn't been easy for me, but I'm glad to have come such a long way and to have learnt so many lessons to get me to where I am today.
However, I wouldn't have made it through if it wasn't for this special someone; my best friend, my pillar of strength, Trixy.
I've always told her the things we both have been through, could never be compared to any of the things any of my ex boyfriends and I did.
She's one of the first few friends I made in my secondary school, and probably one of the only friends that's still in my life until today.
Well, I've lost her. Twice. But I'm grateful that these encounters made us cherish each other more than before.
Remembering the days in secondary school, where I'd cry over some douchebag and she'll always be there to wipe those tears that were streaming down my face.
Over the past 5 years, we hardly fought... But whenever we did, those were the darkest period of my life. I would say I've quite a number of friends, but I wouldn't say the same for friends whom I'm close to.
Good friends are really hard to come by, which is something I'd perpetually remind myself of, and it's the reason why she's someone I'll never want to lose.
We've grown so much, so so much (as you can see.) From those two girls that almost every teacher disliked, those two rebellious ones who always tried stupid things together, those two who constantly explored new ideas on how to skip our dance classes together...
Haha, nothing ventured nothing gained - Wouldn't have realized how foolish all these were if they didn't take place.
And now, we're those two that helped each other come a long way, who are clear of our goals, and she's finally found someone who she loves, and who truly loves her too.
We share a similar character; like our views are usually the same for everything, but it's funny how we are also different at the same time. She's like the girly girl, and I'm the complete opposite of that. She's the kind who would stick in a relationship for years, and I'm the kind who... Let's not even get started on that.
We share different interests, but I believe it's our differences that bring us together.
I'm just so glad to have her in my life, she's like a twin sister I never had.
Late night phone calls, doing sneaky stuff together, ranting about boys together, telling each other everything, partying, sleep overs... Yeah, the capacity of this space wouldn't be enough to hold all my love for this girl.
I'm so happy to have you in my life, and I really hope you'd be happy, from the bottom of my heart. Because your happiness weighs so much more than all the little things in my life.
There's no doubt that I feel like strangling you and dumping you in the sea sometimes, but I know I'd still risk my life to save you even though I can't swim. Hehe.
I know this post is already cheesier than mac&cheese, but thank you for completing my life. Love ya.
Only a special occasion would be appropriate for me to write something like this. When you love someone, you don't have to tell them everyday... Besides, I think we insult more than we compliment each other. Like they always say,
"Boys insult each other, but they don't really mean it. Girls compliment each other, but they don't mean it either."
Haven't been in Singapore on her birthday for the past 4 years... Won't take the blame, my parents just had to coincidentally place our flight on her birthday.
BUT GUESS WHAT, I'M FINALLY AROUND THIS TIME!!!
Wanted to bring this girl somewhere for brunch on her bday (3 days back), but the plan turned out to be such a failure. The store was closed for some personal reasons that day.
Nonetheless, we walked around and found this Asian, Japanese restuarant which managed to salvage our dampened moods.
Love the ambience of the whole place! A little intimidating though, too many caucasians around... Felt a little stress to dine there lmao.
Look who's this gorgeous girl.
Prices of the food there were unexpectedly affordable considering how exquisite everything was. About SGD20-25. Not to mention how filling they were.
81 Duxton
Address: Lobby Level, Berjaya Singapore Hotel, 83 Duxton Road
Opening Hours: Mon - Sun: 07:00 - 10:00 Mon - Sun: 12:00 - 22:30
Top and cap - Hong Kong.
Skirt - Topshop
Bag - Longchamp
Heels - Topshop
Met Aug for his lunch while I had desert at Canelé after the BFF left to meet her bf.
Address: 68 Orchard Road #01-55 Plaza Singapura Singapore 238839
Opening Hours: Mondays to Sundays : 10 a.m. to 10 p.m.
Some candid pixs taken at Smoothie King (Angel Food/Slim N' Trim Strawberry are my favs!) before we caught 3 peas in a pod.
Labels: 81 Duxton, Canelé, Food, Friends' Birthdays, Reviews Mae's 18th/GC Weekends
Had macarons with Tyler at CANELÉ last Friday before heading down to Gushcloud for GCweekend. Finally, after being with them for a year and a half. God knows why, but I just so happen to be unavailable every time GCweekend takes place...
Anyway, I still prefer the ones from Ladurée though. I don't really have a sweet-tooth; although I loveee sweet drinks, I can never consume pastries that are too sweet and even chocolates most of the time, without feeling grossed out.
Yea, I'm one of those weird girls who isn't a big fan of chocolates.
I personally feel that, even though macarons are known for their sweet-flavour, but too much of it can get pretty repulsive. Speaking of which, I'm always nauseated by the thought of my first experience. Apparently the first macron I had was a HUGE mistake, and I swear I wouldn't have touched it again if it wasn't for Tyler.
Anyway as usual, Mr Ng aka Santa Claus has never failed to greet me with gifts every time we meet.
Made our way down to GC after spending an hour at the arcade because our movie plan failed, and yea you've guess it, that was Tyler's ideal way of killing time.
Headed down to Mediacorp for casting after that, before we made our way to the office.
Say hi to Banban!!! He has finally joined the GC family :)
Eric! (I love him the most!!!! I can never stop laughing whenever he's around. Such a funny guy, pity that he isn't a host for those reality shows. Lol)
Shanice!!! (As introduced in one of my previous posts.)
& Eunice!!!
Ok I'm too lazy to name everyone in this picture, but there are probably only half of us present here!
Grabbed the next three pics from Eu. Hahahahaha, 10 of us actually squeezed into a four-seater car to get to Mae's place... How badass is that, lol.
This was perhaps one of the coolest parties I've ever been to, not even kidding.
Mae and her mom. Her mom's basically as cool as the party. Haha
Lastly, we all went down to Zouk for an after-party!
Haven't had so much fun for awhile. Was dead beat by the time I got home, so I zonked out as soon as I hit the sack, but I guess it's all worth it! Work hard, play harder.
That's all for now! x
Labels: Canelé, Food, Friends' Birthdays, Gushcloud, Pictures
BFF's 17th
Tuesday, November 19, 2013 | 9:54 PM | 0comments
5 years. What's 5 years to some people? Some may think that 5 years can bypass like a gush of wind, and it's no big deal... Indeed, I wouldn't disagree, but the past 5 years have taught me so many things I'll never want to forget and will always be kept close to my heart.
Good or bad memories, they are still memories I wish to look back and laugh upon. Life hasn't been easy for me, but I'm glad to have come such a long way and to have learnt so many lessons to get me to where I am today.
However, I wouldn't have made it through if it wasn't for this special someone; my best friend, my pillar of strength, Trixy.
I've always told her the things we both have been through, could never be compared to any of the things any of my ex boyfriends and I did.
She's one of the first few friends I made in my secondary school, and probably one of the only friends that's still in my life until today.
Well, I've lost her. Twice. But I'm grateful that these encounters made us cherish each other more than before.
Remembering the days in secondary school, where I'd cry over some douchebag and she'll always be there to wipe those tears that were streaming down my face.
Over the past 5 years, we hardly fought... But whenever we did, those were the darkest period of my life. I would say I've quite a number of friends, but I wouldn't say the same for friends whom I'm close to.
Good friends are really hard to come by, which is something I'd perpetually remind myself of, and it's the reason why she's someone I'll never want to lose.
We've grown so much, so so much (as you can see.) From those two girls that almost every teacher disliked, those two rebellious ones who always tried stupid things together, those two who constantly explored new ideas on how to skip our dance classes together...
Haha, nothing ventured nothing gained - Wouldn't have realized how foolish all these were if they didn't take place.
And now, we're those two that helped each other come a long way, who are clear of our goals, and she's finally found someone who she loves, and who truly loves her too.
We share a similar character; like our views are usually the same for everything, but it's funny how we are also different at the same time. She's like the girly girl, and I'm the complete opposite of that. She's the kind who would stick in a relationship for years, and I'm the kind who... Let's not even get started on that.
We share different interests, but I believe it's our differences that bring us together.
I'm just so glad to have her in my life, she's like a twin sister I never had.
Late night phone calls, doing sneaky stuff together, ranting about boys together, telling each other everything, partying, sleep overs... Yeah, the capacity of this space wouldn't be enough to hold all my love for this girl.
I'm so happy to have you in my life, and I really hope you'd be happy, from the bottom of my heart. Because your happiness weighs so much more than all the little things in my life.
There's no doubt that I feel like strangling you and dumping you in the sea sometimes, but I know I'd still risk my life to save you even though I can't swim. Hehe.
I know this post is already cheesier than mac&cheese, but thank you for completing my life. Love ya.
Only a special occasion would be appropriate for me to write something like this. When you love someone, you don't have to tell them everyday... Besides, I think we insult more than we compliment each other. Like they always say,
"Boys insult each other, but they don't really mean it. Girls compliment each other, but they don't mean it either."
Haven't been in Singapore on her birthday for the past 4 years... Won't take the blame, my parents just had to coincidentally place our flight on her birthday.
BUT GUESS WHAT, I'M FINALLY AROUND THIS TIME!!!
Wanted to bring this girl somewhere for brunch on her bday (3 days back), but the plan turned out to be such a failure. The store was closed for some personal reasons that day.
Nonetheless, we walked around and found this Asian, Japanese restuarant which managed to salvage our dampened moods.
Love the ambience of the whole place! A little intimidating though, too many caucasians around... Felt a little stress to dine there lmao.
Look who's this gorgeous girl.
Prices of the food there were unexpectedly affordable considering how exquisite everything was. About SGD20-25. Not to mention how filling they were.
81 Duxton
Address: Lobby Level, Berjaya Singapore Hotel, 83 Duxton Road
Opening Hours: Mon - Sun: 07:00 - 10:00 Mon - Sun: 12:00 - 22:30
Top and cap - Hong Kong.
Skirt - Topshop
Bag - Longchamp
Heels - Topshop
Met Aug for his lunch while I had desert at Canelé after the BFF left to meet her bf.
Address: 68 Orchard Road #01-55 Plaza Singapura Singapore 238839
Opening Hours: Mondays to Sundays : 10 a.m. to 10 p.m.
Some candid pixs taken at Smoothie King (Angel Food/Slim N' Trim Strawberry are my favs!) before we caught 3 peas in a pod.
Labels: 81 Duxton, Canelé, Food, Friends' Birthdays, Reviews Mae's 18th/GC Weekends
Had macarons with Tyler at CANELÉ last Friday before heading down to Gushcloud for GCweekend. Finally, after being with them for a year and a half. God knows why, but I just so happen to be unavailable every time GCweekend takes place...
Anyway, I still prefer the ones from Ladurée though. I don't really have a sweet-tooth; although I loveee sweet drinks, I can never consume pastries that are too sweet and even chocolates most of the time, without feeling grossed out.
Yea, I'm one of those weird girls who isn't a big fan of chocolates.
I personally feel that, even though macarons are known for their sweet-flavour, but too much of it can get pretty repulsive. Speaking of which, I'm always nauseated by the thought of my first experience. Apparently the first macron I had was a HUGE mistake, and I swear I wouldn't have touched it again if it wasn't for Tyler.
Anyway as usual, Mr Ng aka Santa Claus has never failed to greet me with gifts every time we meet.
Made our way down to GC after spending an hour at the arcade because our movie plan failed, and yea you've guess it, that was Tyler's ideal way of killing time.
Headed down to Mediacorp for casting after that, before we made our way to the office.
Say hi to Banban!!! He has finally joined the GC family :)
Eric! (I love him the most!!!! I can never stop laughing whenever he's around. Such a funny guy, pity that he isn't a host for those reality shows. Lol)
Shanice!!! (As introduced in one of my previous posts.)
& Eunice!!!
Ok I'm too lazy to name everyone in this picture, but there are probably only half of us present here!
Grabbed the next three pics from Eu. Hahahahaha, 10 of us actually squeezed into a four-seater car to get to Mae's place... How badass is that, lol.
This was perhaps one of the coolest parties I've ever been to, not even kidding.
Mae and her mom. Her mom's basically as cool as the party. Haha
Lastly, we all went down to Zouk for an after-party!
Haven't had so much fun for awhile. Was dead beat by the time I got home, so I zonked out as soon as I hit the sack, but I guess it's all worth it! Work hard, play harder.
That's all for now! x
Labels: Canelé, Food, Friends' Birthdays, Gushcloud, Pictures
ABOUT ME
Hey there! I share about anything and everything here. You can choose to leave, but I think you should get to know me a little more before you pass your judgement. Check out my FAQ section if it helps.
Who are you?
I'm Naomi, better known as Naomi Neo, and I'm born on the 25th of January 1996. I don't have any siblings, but I'm grateful to have the best parents in the world, who love me unconditionally, and a best friend Trixy who's been there for me for the past 5 years. Currently titled as the youngest "Celebrity Blogger" under my management, Gushcloud - With approximately 124k likes & followers on my Facebook profile and page, 80k followers on twitter and 116k on Instagram currently.
What are you known for?
Honestly, I've no idea what am I known for in majority's eyes, but here's what I presume and hope to be recognised for - I've been writing on all my social platforms since 2009, and got kind of known from writing my thoughts and views on Facebook. My first blog post that went viral was an entry dedicated to my good friend back then, titled "Mothers," in late 2010. Noticing the positive results, I decided to take blogging a little more seriously in 2011. Since then, I've been told that my posts were relatable and inspiring to many, which hence, got me to where I am today.
How well to do is your family? You seem rather spoilt.
I think I'm just average and if you think I'm wealthy rich and spoilt, you're so wrong. I mean yes, my parents do pamper me cos I'm the only child, but I've never taken their money since 2013. And I pay for all my clothes, accessories, make up and 90% of my daily necessities from the money I earn.
What are your stats?
I'm a UK 4 or 6, I've been stuck between 38kg - 40kg. Since I've never really talked about my height, you can deduce I'm exceptionally short and I'm not proud of it - So if you know it, good for you. If you don't, too bad I'm not revealing it. :p
Are you single?
Yes I am. My last relationship was in 2013, and I'm not seeing anyone at the moment.
Do you photoshop your pictures?
No, I don't. Cos I honestly have no idea how to use that crazily complexed software. Ok, it's not very complicated I suppose. I'm just god damn lazy. I only use it to design my texts etc. However, I've been using PicMonkey to edit my pictures. Yeah I know, the main question's still back to whether I "beautify" myself or not. Er, I've no idea what's up with people constantly harping on this issue. The last time I claimed that I don't, was probably in 2012 (which I really didn't back then) But along the way, I figured it was necessary to "upgrade" myself and learn how to. If I can't do plastic surgery, at least make my pictures look chio what. If you know how to, question is, WHY NOT? And, don't you guys wanna see nice pictures too?!?! However I'd like to emphasise that - I do not beautify myself in all my pictures. I only do so when I feel the need to. And 3/4 of the time, I only make adjustments to my gigantic, elephant legs WHICH I admit, I'm very insecure about. So don't tell me my legs are damn nice la, cos some pictures are deceiving. Anyway, I've tons of videos everywhere... Judge for yourself?
Did you have any plastic surgery done?
No I didn't. Firstly, I could not afford to. Secondly, even if I do have the money, my parents are definitely not open to the idea. Thirdly, if I have the money and my parents' consent... OH PLEASE, I would have made myself look a zillion times better than how I am now. So some of you may ask, why is it that I have parallel eyelids. I've mentioned this before, but since some of you are too lazy to find out the truth - Fyi, I am born with double eyelids to begin with, I just wanted to have parallel instead of tapered eyelids. And in case you're really sensitive about it, I'm not saying tapered's not nice... It's just personal preference. In case you don't know what I'm talking about...
So yeah, I tried using eyelid tapes for about 6 months in 2011, and miraculously, have permanent parallel lids since then. I think I'm really lucky. Why do I say so? Cos it doesn't work for everyone.
Don't you think it's better to be natural?
Unfortunately, not everyone's blessed with natural beauty. And even though I've never claimed to be ugly, I've never claimed to be pretty by nature either. I won't deny I've been rather extravagant when it comes to the amount of money I spend on things to beautify my physical appearance, cos sadly, it is important to look good in this society today. You can read more on my views about physical appearance (here). And I don't see anything wrong with wanting to look good or better. Everybody wants to. If you tell me you value natural beauty, I'm cool with it, but if you tell me about your self-righteous logic on how it's wrong to enhance your appearance... Fuck you, go marry a plant since you like it natural.
Don't you think it's better to be natural?
Unfortunately, not everyone's blessed with natural beauty. And even though I've never claimed to be ugly, I've never claimed to be pretty by nature either. I won't deny I've been rather extravagant when it comes to the amount of money I spend on things to beautify my physical appearance, cos sadly, it is important to look good in this society today. You can read more on my views about physical appearance (here). And I don't see anything wrong with wanting to look good or better. Everybody wants to. If you tell me you value natural beauty, I'm cool with it, but if you tell me about your self-righteous logic on how it's wrong to enhance your appearance... Fuck you, go marry a plant since you like it natural.
Are you insecure about your looks?
Yes I am, to a certain extent. I believe you would too, if you have a hundred people reminding you about your flaws every single day. But the thing is, I love myself. So I've accepted that's it's fine not to be perfect.
Do you think you're attention seeking?
Most ridiculous question ever. My question to you is, are you not? This is probably my millionth time saying this, but I think everyone seeks for attention. The only thing that differentiates each of us would be the miles we would travel for it. From a level of - I want attention to Kim Kardashian, it's just a matter of fact how much you want it. And I see absolutely nothing wrong with it unless you're doing something despicable, and harming someone to your own benefits. Besides, no matter how much I love it - It may sound ironic, but I hate unnecessary attention. I only like it when it's for something I worked hard to gain. If you know me well enough, I'm not the kind who would go nude just to get myself to where I want. (Just an example)
How do you deal with your haters?
I've been receiving nasty comments since the day I had a blog, in 2007. I've seen the worst, and it came to a point where it amuses me, because I actually get to find out things I didn't know about myself. I used to care so much, I would cry myself to bed on most nights and I even had issues stepping out of my house at a period of time. However, it took me years to realise how stupid it is to reciprocate to what people who don't me have to say, especially stories/rumours they fabricate. I'm fine with constructive criticisms because I've learnt to take it the positive way - Helping me to improve and get better. Of course it still pisses me off at times when I see untrue stuff about me circulated around by my haters, and I'd either ignore it (if it's nothing too serious) or address it, in other words, stand up for myself (if I find a need to.) And when I ignore it, I don't look at it in a way where I'm a coward or I admit to it - I just find it a waste of time to acknowledge the existence of these people, when most of them are just dying to get my response from their juvenile remarks. Yet when I retaliate, (which I rarely do these days) I only do so when something's getting out of hand. Like if it's tarnishing my reputation or sort. After all, I'm a girl. And I wouldn't "just ignore it" if it affects my name. If I don't stand up for myself, who would? Then again, I don't think that means I care about my haters - I just care about myself enough to want to shut your mouth. Besides, I can stop 1, 2 or 3 people from talking about me, but how many times can I do so? Fact is, you can't please everyone. So it's either you focus on what you have, or waste your life by dwelling on what you don't. And for those friends who decided to leave and hate me for what others have to say? Here's a big... THANK YOU. Haha, if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have realised who my real friends were.
Do you think you deserve what you have now?
Honestly, I've always felt that I don't in a way, cos of how affected I used to be about what people have to say - "There are better looking people out there," "You are not good enough!" etc. However, I've came to a realisation that it's impossible to be the best. Cos there will always be someone better, no matter how good you think you are. And as long as I think I've done my best, I don't see why I don't deserve to be where I am today. I've worked so hard for the things I have, and it's not like everything I have is an overnight success. So too bad if you beg to differ and think that a) I'm only here due to my looks, which I think is completely senseless, cos if it was just about my looks, I wouldn't have been around after so long - Taking into consideration, the ever-rising number of good-looking people there are today. b) it's bcos of what I write, cos I definitely won't claim to be the best writer. Somehow it's still a mystery to me why people still read my blog until today. c) and it's probably cos you don't know me well enough. I definitely agree that someone out there deserves this so much more than I do, but I guess it's true that life's unfair, and I'm sorry I have no control over it.
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