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A day by the shore
Can't express how depressed I am. I know I've previously promised that I'll be sharing something I've been working on, over this weekend, but it's all gone...
The autosave function on blogger saved the pre-edited entry, and my final one wasn't saved before I closed my window! I hate it when this happens. Urgh.
Anyway, to amend for the loss of that post, here's something to sum up my Friday.
Spent nearly 12 hours at the beach on Friday, and my shoulder blades are so badly burnt. They hurt! Well, at least it was all worth it. I really had a great time. It's been awhile ever since I had so much fun, so much fun that I wished it all didn't have to come to an end.
A feeling that I've been yearning for ages.
Guess it's a good start for the month of October. Nothing beats hanging out with a group of friends who you could be who you really are, no need for pretence, everything feels as genuine as it seems.
I'm glad to have known these people. After all, 3 months would probably be too short to determine how long these people would stay in my life, but for once... I wanna stop thinking about what's gonna happen in the future, and just live for the moment.
I'll let the pictures do the talking now. :)
I've been thinking a lot lately. Reminiscing everything that took place over the past couple of months. I've changed a lot along the way, and I've discovered so many things.
As cliché as it sounds, life is really not always a bed of roses. Things happen, people change, people leave... But I guess I've finally learnt to accept that all these do happen for a reason?
I know many of you out there are facing or have faced difficulties a million times worse than me, but I guess life would be hell boring without the existence of these obstacles.
So here's to all those who had a rough day,
And I hope all of you will find a reason to smile for the week ahead, goodnight. ;)
Labels: A Day Out, Dear Diary, Pictures, Sentosa Dinner @ Wild Honey
I used to hate Sundays... Well, probably cos I've to attend school the following day, and also because it's the day where I'm not allowed to go out (Family Day), but that was some time ago.
Oh well, things have changed and Sunday has become of my favourite days of the week now since it's one of the rare days I get to stay at home and recuperate. (Lol, recuperate from the loss of energy.) Either that, or it's a day I stay at home to finish up all my unfinished work.
Anyway, I ended up getting my lazy ass to Delfi Orchard's Starbucks. I swear trying to look for an empty table at Starbucks in town, on weekends is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Who to blame? My dear friend who suggested it.
At least after all these ramblings, we managed to get a nice, comfy spot at Delfi.
Stayed there for about 2/3 hours before we went to have dinner @ Wild Honey.
It was my first time there, and I promise the environment can be a little intimidating if you're someone who's as clumsy as me. I was pretty afraid that I might end up knocking, dropping or spilling something.
I can be quite disastrous sometimes...... I remember I went to some really "atas" restaurant at The Peak (Hong Kong) once, and spilt over a glass of beverage. Most disgraceful moment of my life.
I'll never have enough space to list down the million of embarrassing stuff I've done, or at least it isn't something I'd be proud to share. :p
So I got myself a fruit salad with yoghurt while Aug got some Toast with poached eggs and grilled bacon. Yeap, that's my fav part - They've an all day breakfast system too.
I had quite a hard time trying to figure out the "right way" to eat this. Sometimes it may look really simple, but there's actually some strange and sophisticated way to eat certain food, who knows right? Lol.
Or was I just being overly paranoid? Sigh, bimbo moments.
Whatever, I just did it my way in the end. Haha.
Stole a bit of his toast, it was mouthwatering. I think I'll end up at this place again in no time.
I'm not a big fan of bacon, but I love how their eggs Benedict, grilled bacon and sautéed mushrooms could complement each other so well.
It's called "European" on the menu, and it's one of their signature/must-try dishes! Just in case you wanna know!
I just had to make a comic out of this cos... I just had to.
No one to obstruct the picture this time, but Aug's face was pretty worth the comic too. First degree pricelessness.
Have I mentioned how cosy the place was?! I love the ambience. I could sit there the entire day to chill if I won't end up being stomped for god knows what reason, or being chased hehe.
Caption for this picture: "Woaaaah... I've never eaten fruits in my entire life before..."
What's a complete post, without some selfies?
Anyway they've two branches, and we went to the one at MG. No reservations allowed for this branch though. Avoid weekends then! (We were pretty lucky it wasn't crowded yesterday)
Wild Honey @ Mandarin Gallery
Address: 333A Orchard Road #03-02
Opening hours: Sun - Thurs 09:00 - 21:00
Fri, Sat 09:00 - 22:00
@ Scotts Sqaure
Address: 6 Scotts Road #03-01
Phone:
66361816 (Call for a reservation or book here)
Opening hours: Sun - Thurs 09:00 - 22:30
Fri, Sat 08:00 - 22:30
Heading to Browhaus for some touchups and buffet at Kuishin Bo thereafter in just a bit! Will blog about it soon! ;)
Labels: A Day Out, Food, Wild Honey Night Safari
I've always been a fan of the nightlife and as much as I'd love to wake up in the morning to grab a bite at McDonalds, I just hate the idea of waking up early!!!! I HATE IT. Well, but if you're talking about school and meetings etc that's just inevitable... I don't have a choice.
So besides partying, have you ever considered that you might also have as much fun at the Night Safari?!
I'm overwhelmed with all my emotions that I have right now, the animals were sooooo cute! Not kidddddingzzz.
Haven't been there since I was probably 7/8, or perhaps even way before that. Hence, I was so thrilled to have this opportunity to do so with Tyler despite how it's located at the other end of SG, away from me...... Thanks to him I got a ride there with his car. However, fret not!!! It's actually just 25-minute ride away from Ang Mo Kio/ Choa Chu Kang if you hop on to the shuttle bus there! Hence it's pretty accessible and really isn’t as far as what we always think!
Just to give a brief intro to any kuku who hasn't been there even once in your entire life before,
From what I've found out, the Night's Safari is the world's first nocturnal wildlife park which consists of more than 2,500 animals in naturalistic habitats!!! It was a really memorable experience to be able to be exposed to all these beautiful creatures within close distance.
Besides, I also enjoy a breathtaking journey with all the adventures in the park such as the Thumbuakar show, Creatures of the Night Show and walking trails.
Excited me was already snapping pictures at the entrance.
Caught an eyeopening Thumbuakar performance to kick start our evening! Doesn't it amaze you how they could actually breathe out such huge flames?!
It's actually really crowded even on weekdays due to the tour groups, but it’s much quieter later in the night. Their student promo is valid for entry after 9pm, so you no longer have to worry about queuing and squeezing during your visit!
This 20-minute animal extravaganza brings together a constellation of their nocturnal superstars! Was so excited to watch how the animals showcase their natural and unique behaviours and skills.
Was really taken aback bcos according to my really vague impression of the Night Safari, I only remembered being on a tram... No performances, no nothing!!! So I'm really glad. Besides, the show was definitely not a let-down!
Can you spot where's the Binturong (bear-cat)?!?!!?
Oh look, a snake! lol.
So amused how that cute little Otter could differentiate between the different-material cups and bottles, and actually managed to place them in the recycling bin!
The small-toothed civet trying to use its strong sense of smell to find out which hand the grape was on!
Next up was a journey into the mysterious night on a tram. I was actually quite afraid that it might turn out to be a really boring ride, but thankfully, I gotta see a lot of animals I wouldn't’ be able to see if I was there in the day!
I'm so sorry this is the only good shot I managed to capture!!! (Although it's not exactly a fantastic one as well. oops. Flash is prohibited at the Night Safari due to the sensitivity of certain animals’ eyes and may also cause unnecessary stress to them)
I guess it IS a good thing that they really ensure that the animals are protected this way, that aside, this just means that you guys should head down and experience it for yourself!
Above all the fun, you can never have fun without filling up your tummies! At least I can't. Bongo Burgers! It’s an alfresco restaurant with yummy burgers, hotdogs and fries! Noms.
This is seriously such an unflattering picture of myself, but oh well look how much I've sacrificed just to give you guys a good laugh!!!!
Trust me, you won't wanna miss this even if you're not a hardcore animal lover, but if you are good for you! You might regret partying and getting drunk, doing things you shouldn't have done... But you'd definitely not regret this!
* HERE’S A QUICK ITINERARY OF WHAT YOU CAN DO*
• Arrive at NS at about 7.30pm for dinner at Bongo Burgers (10% discount! hehe)
• Catch the 8pm Thumbuakar performance while you noms on the yummy burgers and fries
• Enter the park at around 9pm and catch the Creatures of The Night Show at 9.30pm
• Hop on to the tram ride after the show for a journey into the mystical night (enjoy seeing lovely animals while relaxing)
• After that, explore the Wallaby Trail – you can see the cute wallabies (duh) and also possums and gliders, super cute!
• End your night with some sweet treats at Ben & Jerry’s!
WHAT'S MORE?!
1. 50% admission promo for students
- Tickets can be purchased any time during Night Safari operating hours, but valid for entry after 9pm, daily
- Just flash your student ID to enjoy the discount
Valid 1 Jun – 31 Aug 2013
2. 10% Bongo Burger - Valid daily
- To enjoy the discount, just flash your student ID
Valid 1 Jun – 31 Aug 2013
Apart from these, Night Safari just launched a campaign called “Seen & Herd” and it’s essentially a campaign herding four prominent local artists together, for them to create art pieces that speak for four different threatened species. We can also ‘help’ with conservation by helping to spread the word by participating in the Instagram contest.
THUS PRESENTING...... The "Snap N' Share" Contest!
Simply...
Spreading the word of conservation is easy as snapping a photo!
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Twitter: @tweetWRS
Instagram: @nightsafariofficial
Labels: A Day Out, Animals, Campaigns/Engagements, Event Coverage, Night Safari, Reviews
A day by the shore
Sunday, October 6, 2013 | 9:26 PM | 0comments
Can't express how depressed I am. I know I've previously promised that I'll be sharing something I've been working on, over this weekend, but it's all gone...
The autosave function on blogger saved the pre-edited entry, and my final one wasn't saved before I closed my window! I hate it when this happens. Urgh.
Anyway, to amend for the loss of that post, here's something to sum up my Friday.
Spent nearly 12 hours at the beach on Friday, and my shoulder blades are so badly burnt. They hurt! Well, at least it was all worth it. I really had a great time. It's been awhile ever since I had so much fun, so much fun that I wished it all didn't have to come to an end.
A feeling that I've been yearning for ages.
Guess it's a good start for the month of October. Nothing beats hanging out with a group of friends who you could be who you really are, no need for pretence, everything feels as genuine as it seems.
I'm glad to have known these people. After all, 3 months would probably be too short to determine how long these people would stay in my life, but for once... I wanna stop thinking about what's gonna happen in the future, and just live for the moment.
I'll let the pictures do the talking now. :)
I've been thinking a lot lately. Reminiscing everything that took place over the past couple of months. I've changed a lot along the way, and I've discovered so many things.
As cliché as it sounds, life is really not always a bed of roses. Things happen, people change, people leave... But I guess I've finally learnt to accept that all these do happen for a reason?
I know many of you out there are facing or have faced difficulties a million times worse than me, but I guess life would be hell boring without the existence of these obstacles.
So here's to all those who had a rough day,
And I hope all of you will find a reason to smile for the week ahead, goodnight. ;)
Labels: A Day Out, Dear Diary, Pictures, Sentosa Dinner @ Wild Honey
Monday, August 12, 2013 | 3:32 PM | 1comments
I used to hate Sundays... Well, probably cos I've to attend school the following day, and also because it's the day where I'm not allowed to go out (Family Day), but that was some time ago.
Oh well, things have changed and Sunday has become of my favourite days of the week now since it's one of the rare days I get to stay at home and recuperate. (Lol, recuperate from the loss of energy.) Either that, or it's a day I stay at home to finish up all my unfinished work.
Anyway, I ended up getting my lazy ass to Delfi Orchard's Starbucks. I swear trying to look for an empty table at Starbucks in town, on weekends is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Who to blame? My dear friend who suggested it.
At least after all these ramblings, we managed to get a nice, comfy spot at Delfi.
Stayed there for about 2/3 hours before we went to have dinner @ Wild Honey.
It was my first time there, and I promise the environment can be a little intimidating if you're someone who's as clumsy as me. I was pretty afraid that I might end up knocking, dropping or spilling something.
I can be quite disastrous sometimes...... I remember I went to some really "atas" restaurant at The Peak (Hong Kong) once, and spilt over a glass of beverage. Most disgraceful moment of my life.
I'll never have enough space to list down the million of embarrassing stuff I've done, or at least it isn't something I'd be proud to share. :p
So I got myself a fruit salad with yoghurt while Aug got some Toast with poached eggs and grilled bacon. Yeap, that's my fav part - They've an all day breakfast system too.
I had quite a hard time trying to figure out the "right way" to eat this. Sometimes it may look really simple, but there's actually some strange and sophisticated way to eat certain food, who knows right? Lol.
Or was I just being overly paranoid? Sigh, bimbo moments.
Whatever, I just did it my way in the end. Haha.
Stole a bit of his toast, it was mouthwatering. I think I'll end up at this place again in no time.
I'm not a big fan of bacon, but I love how their eggs Benedict, grilled bacon and sautéed mushrooms could complement each other so well.
It's called "European" on the menu, and it's one of their signature/must-try dishes! Just in case you wanna know!
I just had to make a comic out of this cos... I just had to.
No one to obstruct the picture this time, but Aug's face was pretty worth the comic too. First degree pricelessness.
Have I mentioned how cosy the place was?! I love the ambience. I could sit there the entire day to chill if I won't end up being stomped for god knows what reason, or being chased hehe.
Caption for this picture: "Woaaaah... I've never eaten fruits in my entire life before..."
What's a complete post, without some selfies?
Anyway they've two branches, and we went to the one at MG. No reservations allowed for this branch though. Avoid weekends then! (We were pretty lucky it wasn't crowded yesterday)
Wild Honey @ Mandarin Gallery
Address: 333A Orchard Road #03-02
Opening hours: Sun - Thurs 09:00 - 21:00
Fri, Sat 09:00 - 22:00
@ Scotts Sqaure
Address: 6 Scotts Road #03-01
Phone:
66361816 (Call for a reservation or book here)
Opening hours: Sun - Thurs 09:00 - 22:30
Fri, Sat 08:00 - 22:30
Heading to Browhaus for some touchups and buffet at Kuishin Bo thereafter in just a bit! Will blog about it soon! ;)
Labels: A Day Out, Food, Wild Honey Night Safari
I've always been a fan of the nightlife and as much as I'd love to wake up in the morning to grab a bite at McDonalds, I just hate the idea of waking up early!!!! I HATE IT. Well, but if you're talking about school and meetings etc that's just inevitable... I don't have a choice.
So besides partying, have you ever considered that you might also have as much fun at the Night Safari?!
I'm overwhelmed with all my emotions that I have right now, the animals were sooooo cute! Not kidddddingzzz.
Haven't been there since I was probably 7/8, or perhaps even way before that. Hence, I was so thrilled to have this opportunity to do so with Tyler despite how it's located at the other end of SG, away from me...... Thanks to him I got a ride there with his car. However, fret not!!! It's actually just 25-minute ride away from Ang Mo Kio/ Choa Chu Kang if you hop on to the shuttle bus there! Hence it's pretty accessible and really isn’t as far as what we always think!
Just to give a brief intro to any kuku who hasn't been there even once in your entire life before,
From what I've found out, the Night's Safari is the world's first nocturnal wildlife park which consists of more than 2,500 animals in naturalistic habitats!!! It was a really memorable experience to be able to be exposed to all these beautiful creatures within close distance.
Besides, I also enjoy a breathtaking journey with all the adventures in the park such as the Thumbuakar show, Creatures of the Night Show and walking trails.
Excited me was already snapping pictures at the entrance.
Caught an eyeopening Thumbuakar performance to kick start our evening! Doesn't it amaze you how they could actually breathe out such huge flames?!
It's actually really crowded even on weekdays due to the tour groups, but it’s much quieter later in the night. Their student promo is valid for entry after 9pm, so you no longer have to worry about queuing and squeezing during your visit!
This 20-minute animal extravaganza brings together a constellation of their nocturnal superstars! Was so excited to watch how the animals showcase their natural and unique behaviours and skills.
Was really taken aback bcos according to my really vague impression of the Night Safari, I only remembered being on a tram... No performances, no nothing!!! So I'm really glad. Besides, the show was definitely not a let-down!
Can you spot where's the Binturong (bear-cat)?!?!!?
Oh look, a snake! lol.
So amused how that cute little Otter could differentiate between the different-material cups and bottles, and actually managed to place them in the recycling bin!
The small-toothed civet trying to use its strong sense of smell to find out which hand the grape was on!
Next up was a journey into the mysterious night on a tram. I was actually quite afraid that it might turn out to be a really boring ride, but thankfully, I gotta see a lot of animals I wouldn't’ be able to see if I was there in the day!
I'm so sorry this is the only good shot I managed to capture!!! (Although it's not exactly a fantastic one as well. oops. Flash is prohibited at the Night Safari due to the sensitivity of certain animals’ eyes and may also cause unnecessary stress to them)
I guess it IS a good thing that they really ensure that the animals are protected this way, that aside, this just means that you guys should head down and experience it for yourself!
Above all the fun, you can never have fun without filling up your tummies! At least I can't. Bongo Burgers! It’s an alfresco restaurant with yummy burgers, hotdogs and fries! Noms.
This is seriously such an unflattering picture of myself, but oh well look how much I've sacrificed just to give you guys a good laugh!!!!
Trust me, you won't wanna miss this even if you're not a hardcore animal lover, but if you are good for you! You might regret partying and getting drunk, doing things you shouldn't have done... But you'd definitely not regret this!
* HERE’S A QUICK ITINERARY OF WHAT YOU CAN DO*
• Arrive at NS at about 7.30pm for dinner at Bongo Burgers (10% discount! hehe)
• Catch the 8pm Thumbuakar performance while you noms on the yummy burgers and fries
• Enter the park at around 9pm and catch the Creatures of The Night Show at 9.30pm
• Hop on to the tram ride after the show for a journey into the mystical night (enjoy seeing lovely animals while relaxing)
• After that, explore the Wallaby Trail – you can see the cute wallabies (duh) and also possums and gliders, super cute!
• End your night with some sweet treats at Ben & Jerry’s!
WHAT'S MORE?!
1. 50% admission promo for students
- Tickets can be purchased any time during Night Safari operating hours, but valid for entry after 9pm, daily
- Just flash your student ID to enjoy the discount
Valid 1 Jun – 31 Aug 2013
2. 10% Bongo Burger - Valid daily
- To enjoy the discount, just flash your student ID
Valid 1 Jun – 31 Aug 2013
Apart from these, Night Safari just launched a campaign called “Seen & Herd” and it’s essentially a campaign herding four prominent local artists together, for them to create art pieces that speak for four different threatened species. We can also ‘help’ with conservation by helping to spread the word by participating in the Instagram contest.
THUS PRESENTING...... The "Snap N' Share" Contest!
Simply...
Spreading the word of conservation is easy as snapping a photo!
♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Twitter: @tweetWRS
Instagram: @nightsafariofficial
Labels: A Day Out, Animals, Campaigns/Engagements, Event Coverage, Night Safari, Reviews
ABOUT ME
Hey there! I share about anything and everything here. You can choose to leave, but I think you should get to know me a little more before you pass your judgement. Check out my FAQ section if it helps.
Who are you?
I'm Naomi, better known as Naomi Neo, and I'm born on the 25th of January 1996. I don't have any siblings, but I'm grateful to have the best parents in the world, who love me unconditionally, and a best friend Trixy who's been there for me for the past 5 years. Currently titled as the youngest "Celebrity Blogger" under my management, Gushcloud - With approximately 124k likes & followers on my Facebook profile and page, 80k followers on twitter and 116k on Instagram currently.
What are you known for?
Honestly, I've no idea what am I known for in majority's eyes, but here's what I presume and hope to be recognised for - I've been writing on all my social platforms since 2009, and got kind of known from writing my thoughts and views on Facebook. My first blog post that went viral was an entry dedicated to my good friend back then, titled "Mothers," in late 2010. Noticing the positive results, I decided to take blogging a little more seriously in 2011. Since then, I've been told that my posts were relatable and inspiring to many, which hence, got me to where I am today.
How well to do is your family? You seem rather spoilt.
I think I'm just average and if you think I'm wealthy rich and spoilt, you're so wrong. I mean yes, my parents do pamper me cos I'm the only child, but I've never taken their money since 2013. And I pay for all my clothes, accessories, make up and 90% of my daily necessities from the money I earn.
What are your stats?
I'm a UK 4 or 6, I've been stuck between 38kg - 40kg. Since I've never really talked about my height, you can deduce I'm exceptionally short and I'm not proud of it - So if you know it, good for you. If you don't, too bad I'm not revealing it. :p
Are you single?
Yes I am. My last relationship was in 2013, and I'm not seeing anyone at the moment.
Do you photoshop your pictures?
No, I don't. Cos I honestly have no idea how to use that crazily complexed software. Ok, it's not very complicated I suppose. I'm just god damn lazy. I only use it to design my texts etc. However, I've been using PicMonkey to edit my pictures. Yeah I know, the main question's still back to whether I "beautify" myself or not. Er, I've no idea what's up with people constantly harping on this issue. The last time I claimed that I don't, was probably in 2012 (which I really didn't back then) But along the way, I figured it was necessary to "upgrade" myself and learn how to. If I can't do plastic surgery, at least make my pictures look chio what. If you know how to, question is, WHY NOT? And, don't you guys wanna see nice pictures too?!?! However I'd like to emphasise that - I do not beautify myself in all my pictures. I only do so when I feel the need to. And 3/4 of the time, I only make adjustments to my gigantic, elephant legs WHICH I admit, I'm very insecure about. So don't tell me my legs are damn nice la, cos some pictures are deceiving. Anyway, I've tons of videos everywhere... Judge for yourself?
Did you have any plastic surgery done?
No I didn't. Firstly, I could not afford to. Secondly, even if I do have the money, my parents are definitely not open to the idea. Thirdly, if I have the money and my parents' consent... OH PLEASE, I would have made myself look a zillion times better than how I am now. So some of you may ask, why is it that I have parallel eyelids. I've mentioned this before, but since some of you are too lazy to find out the truth - Fyi, I am born with double eyelids to begin with, I just wanted to have parallel instead of tapered eyelids. And in case you're really sensitive about it, I'm not saying tapered's not nice... It's just personal preference. In case you don't know what I'm talking about...
So yeah, I tried using eyelid tapes for about 6 months in 2011, and miraculously, have permanent parallel lids since then. I think I'm really lucky. Why do I say so? Cos it doesn't work for everyone.
Don't you think it's better to be natural?
Unfortunately, not everyone's blessed with natural beauty. And even though I've never claimed to be ugly, I've never claimed to be pretty by nature either. I won't deny I've been rather extravagant when it comes to the amount of money I spend on things to beautify my physical appearance, cos sadly, it is important to look good in this society today. You can read more on my views about physical appearance (here). And I don't see anything wrong with wanting to look good or better. Everybody wants to. If you tell me you value natural beauty, I'm cool with it, but if you tell me about your self-righteous logic on how it's wrong to enhance your appearance... Fuck you, go marry a plant since you like it natural.
Don't you think it's better to be natural?
Unfortunately, not everyone's blessed with natural beauty. And even though I've never claimed to be ugly, I've never claimed to be pretty by nature either. I won't deny I've been rather extravagant when it comes to the amount of money I spend on things to beautify my physical appearance, cos sadly, it is important to look good in this society today. You can read more on my views about physical appearance (here). And I don't see anything wrong with wanting to look good or better. Everybody wants to. If you tell me you value natural beauty, I'm cool with it, but if you tell me about your self-righteous logic on how it's wrong to enhance your appearance... Fuck you, go marry a plant since you like it natural.
Are you insecure about your looks?
Yes I am, to a certain extent. I believe you would too, if you have a hundred people reminding you about your flaws every single day. But the thing is, I love myself. So I've accepted that's it's fine not to be perfect.
Do you think you're attention seeking?
Most ridiculous question ever. My question to you is, are you not? This is probably my millionth time saying this, but I think everyone seeks for attention. The only thing that differentiates each of us would be the miles we would travel for it. From a level of - I want attention to Kim Kardashian, it's just a matter of fact how much you want it. And I see absolutely nothing wrong with it unless you're doing something despicable, and harming someone to your own benefits. Besides, no matter how much I love it - It may sound ironic, but I hate unnecessary attention. I only like it when it's for something I worked hard to gain. If you know me well enough, I'm not the kind who would go nude just to get myself to where I want. (Just an example)
How do you deal with your haters?
I've been receiving nasty comments since the day I had a blog, in 2007. I've seen the worst, and it came to a point where it amuses me, because I actually get to find out things I didn't know about myself. I used to care so much, I would cry myself to bed on most nights and I even had issues stepping out of my house at a period of time. However, it took me years to realise how stupid it is to reciprocate to what people who don't me have to say, especially stories/rumours they fabricate. I'm fine with constructive criticisms because I've learnt to take it the positive way - Helping me to improve and get better. Of course it still pisses me off at times when I see untrue stuff about me circulated around by my haters, and I'd either ignore it (if it's nothing too serious) or address it, in other words, stand up for myself (if I find a need to.) And when I ignore it, I don't look at it in a way where I'm a coward or I admit to it - I just find it a waste of time to acknowledge the existence of these people, when most of them are just dying to get my response from their juvenile remarks. Yet when I retaliate, (which I rarely do these days) I only do so when something's getting out of hand. Like if it's tarnishing my reputation or sort. After all, I'm a girl. And I wouldn't "just ignore it" if it affects my name. If I don't stand up for myself, who would? Then again, I don't think that means I care about my haters - I just care about myself enough to want to shut your mouth. Besides, I can stop 1, 2 or 3 people from talking about me, but how many times can I do so? Fact is, you can't please everyone. So it's either you focus on what you have, or waste your life by dwelling on what you don't. And for those friends who decided to leave and hate me for what others have to say? Here's a big... THANK YOU. Haha, if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have realised who my real friends were.
Do you think you deserve what you have now?
Honestly, I've always felt that I don't in a way, cos of how affected I used to be about what people have to say - "There are better looking people out there," "You are not good enough!" etc. However, I've came to a realisation that it's impossible to be the best. Cos there will always be someone better, no matter how good you think you are. And as long as I think I've done my best, I don't see why I don't deserve to be where I am today. I've worked so hard for the things I have, and it's not like everything I have is an overnight success. So too bad if you beg to differ and think that a) I'm only here due to my looks, which I think is completely senseless, cos if it was just about my looks, I wouldn't have been around after so long - Taking into consideration, the ever-rising number of good-looking people there are today. b) it's bcos of what I write, cos I definitely won't claim to be the best writer. Somehow it's still a mystery to me why people still read my blog until today. c) and it's probably cos you don't know me well enough. I definitely agree that someone out there deserves this so much more than I do, but I guess it's true that life's unfair, and I'm sorry I have no control over it.
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