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One of my biggest problems
I guess compared to boys, girls in general tend to have much more things to worry about. As a teenage girl especially, even having mascara flakes on my face could bother me. Of course, the level of seriousness can range from "I'LL JUST HAVE TO SUCK IT UP" to "WTF MY LIFE IS OVER," and the complication doubles up when it comes to something you can't solve... In this case, my problem with shoes.
I've more than 30 pairs of shoes (• not flaunting • paid for all of them with my own money) at home, varying from classic sneakers to sky-high hellbounds. And honestly speaking, if I had to make a choice between flats and heels, I'd opt for flats, anytime, any day. No doubt.
However, being short in height and as a cankle (where the calf meets the foot in one unapologetic union) sufferer, it's really a challenge for me to find a pair of shoes that would not only make me look taller and slimmer, but would also not cause me to look shorter and stubbier.
High-cuts are my favourites, and I've so many ankle-boots and high-cut sneakers, but they are the ones that would usually make your legs look shorter. Hence, it's something I've to either forgo or deal with.
Round-toe shoes are super cute, but similarly, they will virtually shorten your legs, so they would have to go as well.
Not forgetting my horrible cankles that look literally like a chunk of fat splotched at the bottom of my legs, that disallow any opportunity for strappy shoes. Basically, any ankle accessory would have to be forbidden. If I insist, it'd just put unnecessary focus on my thick ankles, bcos straps and even ribbons, would accentuate them.
Kitten heels are a "NO WAY" for me too, unless I wanna end up looking like humpty dumpty.
As "noble" as you guys think I am, being able to accept my flaws blablabla... I will still be constantly on the hunt for alternatives on how to make myself look better. Accepting yourself for who you are is one thing, improving yourself is another.
I may feel good about myself, but there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel better, right?
So anyway, after mentioning my issues and the type of shoes to avoid, if you're just like me; petite, or you feel insecure about your legs, here are some shoes that may fit you!
1) Knee-high boots
Not only can you find heeled ones, you can also put in insoles for a boost in height.
2) Pointy pumps
Like I mentioned earlier on, if you face any one of those two problems, avoid any ankle-cuff heels or those with straps around your ankle. Instead, go for a pair of pointy pumps, to elongate your legs.
Today, these two types of shoes are available in the form of flats and wedges as well, if you're not that fond of heels.
Not to mention, they help to direct the focus away from your ankles as well.
Of course, there are many other shoes these days that could solve such problems temporarily for you.
My personal favourites would be either hellbounds, platform heels/shoes.
Here's an example!
(I bet all eyes are on my cankles now because of what I just wrote, lol.)
If you don't already know, PVS is a reseller of many renowned brands, such as - Jeffery campbell, Hater, Dr Martens etc, and it's located at Cathay Cineleisure Orchard #02-05!
Just a little background on T.U.K - Originally from England in the 1970s, T.U.K Footwear moved its base to California and has been producing original footwear that is inspired by the underground culture for men, women and children. Already known for being on the feet of celebrities like Miley Cyrus, Carly Rae Jepsen and Green Day.
Apart from collaborations, T.U.K Footwear lends its support to musicians and bands on their tours. Big name musicians like Imagine Dragons, Miley Cyrus and Neighbourhood have been spotted in their T.U.K footwear when they are out and about.
Drop by PVS and quote "Naomi" at the counter for 5% off any T.U.K Shoes until the end of July! :)
Labels: PVS, Shoes, T.U.K, Tips N Guides Random Thoughts.
This post is gonna be really dry and boring! I just thought I'd update a little since I haven't for the past few days. Bear with me or just look through the small amount of camwhore shots (haven't been taking much pictures recently, so I'm sorry for the lack of it!)
As much as I have to constantly remind myself that it's school the next day, I really hate Sundays! Who's in with me? :(
My first paper for O's will be right there, in front of me... In less than 3 months... And I'm really terrified about it even though it's Mother Tongue. Since I was born my parents barely speak to me in Chinese and I never really liked this subject though it's one of my best subjects since young. Ironic.
Remembering how in Primary school, upon receiving back my paper and seeing a nightmare score of 60, it was good enough for an hour of hardcore lecture back home.
After since I stepped into my Secondary school life, I swear the amount of problems arose like nobody's business, and above that... I still had to deal with them to find time to study!
I swear it was really tough trying to cope with my studies after since I had a social life.
"Good grades + Sleep = No social life. Good grades + Social life = No sleep. Social life + Sleep = Bad grades."
I bet half of you are aware where I'm coming from. *Sigh*
I'm always in a dilemma, forever fickle minded, forever losing determination on something I wanna do. I'm always losing interest in something after awhile, and that's probably one my worst habit.
Well, now that I'm 16... I'm starting to have a clearer view of what I really wanna do in future, but I'm still lack of the motivation to strive towards my goal. I'm a really lazy person fyi.
My grades have always been lingering around the borderline. Never the end, never the top. Yea, I study, but not hardcore kind. Unless I'm suddenly smacked in the head by reality that it's time I wake up from my dreams and do something about my life.
Which happens every once in awhile, but it never lasts, just like flames to dust!!!!! I really need to sort things out before it's too late and get started on it. I don't wanna end up crying my way back home next year, fretting on what to be in future... A road sweeper? That's what they always say.
I wanna write and I'm definitely hoping to be able to pursue that in future!!!! That's my dream (for now) Hope it isn't one of my temporary decisions again.
So I thought I'd like to share my two new pair of shoes I've got recently!!! I really love them. Aren't they purdy?! And I've a crazy obsession for pretty heels! Although I know Litas is hell common, but my gf said it was way tooooo me, so I had to get it.
I've been splurging to an insane extent recently after since I've got signed and started working. I've to stop. Urgh.
I'll share my shoe collection the next time round!!! :D
Anyway, the following part is mainly for my supporters (or friends)!
Recently, a lot of things took placed... Yea, all the trashing and bashing shit. Hopefully it's coming to an end already. I just wanna thank each and every single one of you! Be it whether you texted me, emailed me, facebook msged me, tweet to me... Whatever. I really appreciate all of your really sweet thoughts!
I swear you guys made my life so much better, I love you guys to bits! *Virtual hugs and kisses*
& Lastly, for those who are still unaware... I lost my phone!!! So I'm sorry if I didn't reply to texts and all. Cya guys again! :)
Labels: Dear Diary, Random, Shoes
One of my biggest problems
I guess compared to boys, girls in general tend to have much more things to worry about. As a teenage girl especially, even having mascara flakes on my face could bother me. Of course, the level of seriousness can range from "I'LL JUST HAVE TO SUCK IT UP" to "WTF MY LIFE IS OVER," and the complication doubles up when it comes to something you can't solve... In this case, my problem with shoes.
I've more than 30 pairs of shoes (• not flaunting • paid for all of them with my own money) at home, varying from classic sneakers to sky-high hellbounds. And honestly speaking, if I had to make a choice between flats and heels, I'd opt for flats, anytime, any day. No doubt.
However, being short in height and as a cankle (where the calf meets the foot in one unapologetic union) sufferer, it's really a challenge for me to find a pair of shoes that would not only make me look taller and slimmer, but would also not cause me to look shorter and stubbier.
High-cuts are my favourites, and I've so many ankle-boots and high-cut sneakers, but they are the ones that would usually make your legs look shorter. Hence, it's something I've to either forgo or deal with.
Round-toe shoes are super cute, but similarly, they will virtually shorten your legs, so they would have to go as well.
Not forgetting my horrible cankles that look literally like a chunk of fat splotched at the bottom of my legs, that disallow any opportunity for strappy shoes. Basically, any ankle accessory would have to be forbidden. If I insist, it'd just put unnecessary focus on my thick ankles, bcos straps and even ribbons, would accentuate them.
Kitten heels are a "NO WAY" for me too, unless I wanna end up looking like humpty dumpty.
As "noble" as you guys think I am, being able to accept my flaws blablabla... I will still be constantly on the hunt for alternatives on how to make myself look better. Accepting yourself for who you are is one thing, improving yourself is another.
I may feel good about myself, but there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel better, right?
So anyway, after mentioning my issues and the type of shoes to avoid, if you're just like me; petite, or you feel insecure about your legs, here are some shoes that may fit you!
1) Knee-high boots
Not only can you find heeled ones, you can also put in insoles for a boost in height.
2) Pointy pumps
Like I mentioned earlier on, if you face any one of those two problems, avoid any ankle-cuff heels or those with straps around your ankle. Instead, go for a pair of pointy pumps, to elongate your legs.
Today, these two types of shoes are available in the form of flats and wedges as well, if you're not that fond of heels.
Not to mention, they help to direct the focus away from your ankles as well.
Of course, there are many other shoes these days that could solve such problems temporarily for you.
My personal favourites would be either hellbounds, platform heels/shoes.
Here's an example!
(I bet all eyes are on my cankles now because of what I just wrote, lol.)
If you don't already know, PVS is a reseller of many renowned brands, such as - Jeffery campbell, Hater, Dr Martens etc, and it's located at Cathay Cineleisure Orchard #02-05!
Just a little background on T.U.K - Originally from England in the 1970s, T.U.K Footwear moved its base to California and has been producing original footwear that is inspired by the underground culture for men, women and children. Already known for being on the feet of celebrities like Miley Cyrus, Carly Rae Jepsen and Green Day.
Apart from collaborations, T.U.K Footwear lends its support to musicians and bands on their tours. Big name musicians like Imagine Dragons, Miley Cyrus and Neighbourhood have been spotted in their T.U.K footwear when they are out and about.
Drop by PVS and quote "Naomi" at the counter for 5% off any T.U.K Shoes until the end of July! :)
Labels: PVS, Shoes, T.U.K, Tips N Guides Random Thoughts.
This post is gonna be really dry and boring! I just thought I'd update a little since I haven't for the past few days. Bear with me or just look through the small amount of camwhore shots (haven't been taking much pictures recently, so I'm sorry for the lack of it!)
As much as I have to constantly remind myself that it's school the next day, I really hate Sundays! Who's in with me? :(
My first paper for O's will be right there, in front of me... In less than 3 months... And I'm really terrified about it even though it's Mother Tongue. Since I was born my parents barely speak to me in Chinese and I never really liked this subject though it's one of my best subjects since young. Ironic.
Remembering how in Primary school, upon receiving back my paper and seeing a nightmare score of 60, it was good enough for an hour of hardcore lecture back home.
After since I stepped into my Secondary school life, I swear the amount of problems arose like nobody's business, and above that... I still had to deal with them to find time to study!
I swear it was really tough trying to cope with my studies after since I had a social life.
"Good grades + Sleep = No social life. Good grades + Social life = No sleep. Social life + Sleep = Bad grades."
I bet half of you are aware where I'm coming from. *Sigh*
I'm always in a dilemma, forever fickle minded, forever losing determination on something I wanna do. I'm always losing interest in something after awhile, and that's probably one my worst habit.
Well, now that I'm 16... I'm starting to have a clearer view of what I really wanna do in future, but I'm still lack of the motivation to strive towards my goal. I'm a really lazy person fyi.
My grades have always been lingering around the borderline. Never the end, never the top. Yea, I study, but not hardcore kind. Unless I'm suddenly smacked in the head by reality that it's time I wake up from my dreams and do something about my life.
Which happens every once in awhile, but it never lasts, just like flames to dust!!!!! I really need to sort things out before it's too late and get started on it. I don't wanna end up crying my way back home next year, fretting on what to be in future... A road sweeper? That's what they always say.
I wanna write and I'm definitely hoping to be able to pursue that in future!!!! That's my dream (for now) Hope it isn't one of my temporary decisions again.
So I thought I'd like to share my two new pair of shoes I've got recently!!! I really love them. Aren't they purdy?! And I've a crazy obsession for pretty heels! Although I know Litas is hell common, but my gf said it was way tooooo me, so I had to get it.
I've been splurging to an insane extent recently after since I've got signed and started working. I've to stop. Urgh.
I'll share my shoe collection the next time round!!! :D
Anyway, the following part is mainly for my supporters (or friends)!
Recently, a lot of things took placed... Yea, all the trashing and bashing shit. Hopefully it's coming to an end already. I just wanna thank each and every single one of you! Be it whether you texted me, emailed me, facebook msged me, tweet to me... Whatever. I really appreciate all of your really sweet thoughts!
I swear you guys made my life so much better, I love you guys to bits! *Virtual hugs and kisses*
& Lastly, for those who are still unaware... I lost my phone!!! So I'm sorry if I didn't reply to texts and all. Cya guys again! :)
Labels: Dear Diary, Random, Shoes
ABOUT ME
Hey there! I share about anything and everything here. You can choose to leave, but I think you should get to know me a little more before you pass your judgement. Check out my FAQ section if it helps.
Who are you?
I'm Naomi, better known as Naomi Neo, and I'm born on the 25th of January 1996. I don't have any siblings, but I'm grateful to have the best parents in the world, who love me unconditionally, and a best friend Trixy who's been there for me for the past 5 years. Currently titled as the youngest "Celebrity Blogger" under my management, Gushcloud - With approximately 124k likes & followers on my Facebook profile and page, 80k followers on twitter and 116k on Instagram currently.
What are you known for?
Honestly, I've no idea what am I known for in majority's eyes, but here's what I presume and hope to be recognised for - I've been writing on all my social platforms since 2009, and got kind of known from writing my thoughts and views on Facebook. My first blog post that went viral was an entry dedicated to my good friend back then, titled "Mothers," in late 2010. Noticing the positive results, I decided to take blogging a little more seriously in 2011. Since then, I've been told that my posts were relatable and inspiring to many, which hence, got me to where I am today.
How well to do is your family? You seem rather spoilt.
I think I'm just average and if you think I'm wealthy rich and spoilt, you're so wrong. I mean yes, my parents do pamper me cos I'm the only child, but I've never taken their money since 2013. And I pay for all my clothes, accessories, make up and 90% of my daily necessities from the money I earn.
What are your stats?
I'm a UK 4 or 6, I've been stuck between 38kg - 40kg. Since I've never really talked about my height, you can deduce I'm exceptionally short and I'm not proud of it - So if you know it, good for you. If you don't, too bad I'm not revealing it. :p
Are you single?
Yes I am. My last relationship was in 2013, and I'm not seeing anyone at the moment.
Do you photoshop your pictures?
No, I don't. Cos I honestly have no idea how to use that crazily complexed software. Ok, it's not very complicated I suppose. I'm just god damn lazy. I only use it to design my texts etc. However, I've been using PicMonkey to edit my pictures. Yeah I know, the main question's still back to whether I "beautify" myself or not. Er, I've no idea what's up with people constantly harping on this issue. The last time I claimed that I don't, was probably in 2012 (which I really didn't back then) But along the way, I figured it was necessary to "upgrade" myself and learn how to. If I can't do plastic surgery, at least make my pictures look chio what. If you know how to, question is, WHY NOT? And, don't you guys wanna see nice pictures too?!?! However I'd like to emphasise that - I do not beautify myself in all my pictures. I only do so when I feel the need to. And 3/4 of the time, I only make adjustments to my gigantic, elephant legs WHICH I admit, I'm very insecure about. So don't tell me my legs are damn nice la, cos some pictures are deceiving. Anyway, I've tons of videos everywhere... Judge for yourself?
Did you have any plastic surgery done?
No I didn't. Firstly, I could not afford to. Secondly, even if I do have the money, my parents are definitely not open to the idea. Thirdly, if I have the money and my parents' consent... OH PLEASE, I would have made myself look a zillion times better than how I am now. So some of you may ask, why is it that I have parallel eyelids. I've mentioned this before, but since some of you are too lazy to find out the truth - Fyi, I am born with double eyelids to begin with, I just wanted to have parallel instead of tapered eyelids. And in case you're really sensitive about it, I'm not saying tapered's not nice... It's just personal preference. In case you don't know what I'm talking about...
So yeah, I tried using eyelid tapes for about 6 months in 2011, and miraculously, have permanent parallel lids since then. I think I'm really lucky. Why do I say so? Cos it doesn't work for everyone.
Don't you think it's better to be natural?
Unfortunately, not everyone's blessed with natural beauty. And even though I've never claimed to be ugly, I've never claimed to be pretty by nature either. I won't deny I've been rather extravagant when it comes to the amount of money I spend on things to beautify my physical appearance, cos sadly, it is important to look good in this society today. You can read more on my views about physical appearance (here). And I don't see anything wrong with wanting to look good or better. Everybody wants to. If you tell me you value natural beauty, I'm cool with it, but if you tell me about your self-righteous logic on how it's wrong to enhance your appearance... Fuck you, go marry a plant since you like it natural.
Don't you think it's better to be natural?
Unfortunately, not everyone's blessed with natural beauty. And even though I've never claimed to be ugly, I've never claimed to be pretty by nature either. I won't deny I've been rather extravagant when it comes to the amount of money I spend on things to beautify my physical appearance, cos sadly, it is important to look good in this society today. You can read more on my views about physical appearance (here). And I don't see anything wrong with wanting to look good or better. Everybody wants to. If you tell me you value natural beauty, I'm cool with it, but if you tell me about your self-righteous logic on how it's wrong to enhance your appearance... Fuck you, go marry a plant since you like it natural.
Are you insecure about your looks?
Yes I am, to a certain extent. I believe you would too, if you have a hundred people reminding you about your flaws every single day. But the thing is, I love myself. So I've accepted that's it's fine not to be perfect.
Do you think you're attention seeking?
Most ridiculous question ever. My question to you is, are you not? This is probably my millionth time saying this, but I think everyone seeks for attention. The only thing that differentiates each of us would be the miles we would travel for it. From a level of - I want attention to Kim Kardashian, it's just a matter of fact how much you want it. And I see absolutely nothing wrong with it unless you're doing something despicable, and harming someone to your own benefits. Besides, no matter how much I love it - It may sound ironic, but I hate unnecessary attention. I only like it when it's for something I worked hard to gain. If you know me well enough, I'm not the kind who would go nude just to get myself to where I want. (Just an example)
How do you deal with your haters?
I've been receiving nasty comments since the day I had a blog, in 2007. I've seen the worst, and it came to a point where it amuses me, because I actually get to find out things I didn't know about myself. I used to care so much, I would cry myself to bed on most nights and I even had issues stepping out of my house at a period of time. However, it took me years to realise how stupid it is to reciprocate to what people who don't me have to say, especially stories/rumours they fabricate. I'm fine with constructive criticisms because I've learnt to take it the positive way - Helping me to improve and get better. Of course it still pisses me off at times when I see untrue stuff about me circulated around by my haters, and I'd either ignore it (if it's nothing too serious) or address it, in other words, stand up for myself (if I find a need to.) And when I ignore it, I don't look at it in a way where I'm a coward or I admit to it - I just find it a waste of time to acknowledge the existence of these people, when most of them are just dying to get my response from their juvenile remarks. Yet when I retaliate, (which I rarely do these days) I only do so when something's getting out of hand. Like if it's tarnishing my reputation or sort. After all, I'm a girl. And I wouldn't "just ignore it" if it affects my name. If I don't stand up for myself, who would? Then again, I don't think that means I care about my haters - I just care about myself enough to want to shut your mouth. Besides, I can stop 1, 2 or 3 people from talking about me, but how many times can I do so? Fact is, you can't please everyone. So it's either you focus on what you have, or waste your life by dwelling on what you don't. And for those friends who decided to leave and hate me for what others have to say? Here's a big... THANK YOU. Haha, if it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have realised who my real friends were.
Do you think you deserve what you have now?
Honestly, I've always felt that I don't in a way, cos of how affected I used to be about what people have to say - "There are better looking people out there," "You are not good enough!" etc. However, I've came to a realisation that it's impossible to be the best. Cos there will always be someone better, no matter how good you think you are. And as long as I think I've done my best, I don't see why I don't deserve to be where I am today. I've worked so hard for the things I have, and it's not like everything I have is an overnight success. So too bad if you beg to differ and think that a) I'm only here due to my looks, which I think is completely senseless, cos if it was just about my looks, I wouldn't have been around after so long - Taking into consideration, the ever-rising number of good-looking people there are today. b) it's bcos of what I write, cos I definitely won't claim to be the best writer. Somehow it's still a mystery to me why people still read my blog until today. c) and it's probably cos you don't know me well enough. I definitely agree that someone out there deserves this so much more than I do, but I guess it's true that life's unfair, and I'm sorry I have no control over it.
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